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Relationship Goals? Woman Advertises For A Second Wife For Her Hubby On Facebook





A Nigerian woman living in San Diego has taken to Facebook to help find her a sister-wife for her husband …yep you read that right! Aisha Abdur-Rahman has taken it upon herself to find a second wife her 32 year old husband.

What a lucky man! So many men would kill to be him right now.

She took to her Facebook page where she shared a picture of her husband of six years, with the message,

As salamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh any sisters looking for a husband, I’m looking for a Co Wife for my husband, in san diego, California he’s 32 years old, easy to get along with, down to earth, open minded, compassionate, caring, loving, sincere, loyal, trustworthy, honest and loves to laugh, he’s serious with his Deen but at the same time balanced Alhamdulilah, he’s a very good husband, sisters please inbox me inshaAllah if your interested


As Seen On Twitter Today…This Is Why Single Women Over 30 Aren’t Married…

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This is what one Naija tweep had to say about any single woman over the age of 30.

Please let’s report him to Buhari

Image via Instablog9ga

This Is What Happens When You Are A Married Man & Your Sidechick Posts A Coupled Up Selfie On Instagram


These married men will never learn! How can you post a pic with your married man calling him bae?

That’s exactly what happened a few weeks ago when a Nigerian Instagram user @barbie_davina posted a coupled up car selfie with her boo…identified as Ifeabunike Nwolisa (a Freight forwarder)

The only problem? Her boo probably has a boo…a main boo…a wife! 

A few weeks ago the girl in the picture posted the above picture with the caption,

Chilling with bae


Is Naming & Shaming Your Husband’s Mistress This Way, The Best Method To Keep Him Faithful?



As seen on the streets of Uganda!

It’s 2016 and married women in Uganda are employing a new strategy in naming and shaming their husband’s mistresses! It’s 2016 and wives are no longer sitting idly by, running to pastor to bring their husband home…they are taking it to the streets…literally!


#RelationshipGoals “My Husband Still Toasts Me After 18 Years Together” – Lami Phillips


Singer Lami Phillips is one lucky girl!

The 30 something year old is about to celebrate being married for 11 good years.

In an Instagram post celebrating her man, Labo Gbadamosi the singer revealed that even after 18 years together her husband still toasts her!

What a lucky girl? Most men switch on their wives as soon as they say the “I do’s”

Check on her sweet Instagram post after the jump


This Nigerian Woman’s Reaction To Her Husband Marrying A Second Wife Is Shocking!


Usually when a woman finds out her husband is marrying another wife, her first reaction isn’t to welcome the new wife with open arms and even pray for their union to be blessed. The normal expected reaction is usually slashed tires, cussing him out and throwing him out of the house.

But this woman I am about to tell you about did none of that!

Long time Twitter user Fatima Lamido shocked everyone yesterday when she tweeted the following words,

Hello twitter my Husband is taking a second wife tomorrow join me and pray for them God bless their Union….

I thought it was hoax but then she started replying and retweeting messages which lauded her as a brave and loving woman.

In her defense she is of Muslim faith and Muslim men are allowed to marry four wives. Polygamy is not an unusual development especially among Nigerian Muslims but her reaction is the shocking part…I don’t know of any Muslim woman who has taken kindly to her husband marrying another woman.

See how Twitter Nigeria reacted to her acceptance of her husband marrying a second wife


This Twitter User Just Gave The Best Advice For Snooping On Your Bae’s Phone



You know how it is. Your bae leaves his or her mobile phone around you & you use it as an opportunity to find out if he/she is up to some hanky panky with someone else.


This Is Why Juliet Ibrahim Thinks She’s Better Off Marrying A White Man…

Juliet Ibrahim is over dating an African men!

The actress who was previously linked with IK Ogbonna, in a recent interview spoke about the challenges of dating an African man because of the line of work she’s in.

The mixed race Ghanaian actress spoke on the judgement she faces from African men who pretty much label her a whore because she is an actress.


Alibaba Has A Message For Married Women: Forget That New Age Crap So Your Hubby Doesn’t Keep Side Chicks


He is a veteran comedian but Alibaba is also well known for regularly churning out relationship advice on social media.

Today he dished on how married women need to take care & cater to their men so they don’t get left for sidechicks them. He wrote about how anyone that encourages a wife not to take care of her husband or to do a 50/50 type of love is “brainwashing the woman at home to stop doing these things to their men, so that he can go get it outside.”

Read more after the jump


Single Nigerian Women Stop Sowing Seeds For Husbands [A Must Read]



It’s a well known fact that in our society if a woman isn’t married at a certain age, she is deemed as incomplete. Charly Boy even touched on the issue in a recent post which you can read here.

After a while the pressure sets in for the woman & out of desperation she starts to entertain men she would never have. I’ve heard situations where women even end up settling with men that they constantly take care of financially, men that abuse them (emotionally & physically) just so they can have the title of “Mrs”.

The Mrs struggle is real in Nigeria…very real.

I stumbled on this article about women sowing seeds for husbands on Laila’s Blog and thought it was a very interesting read. Check on it after the jump


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